Live by these

• Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now laugh through the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason. -unknown
• There are things we don't want to happen, but have to accept; things we don't want to know, but have to learn; and people we can't live without, but have to let go. -unknown.
• What's the point of being alive if you don't at least try to do something remarkable. -unknown
• The key to happiness is letting each situation be what it is instead of what you think it should be. - unknown
• Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you'll land among the stars. - Bryan Littrell
• People are often unreasonable and self centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway. What you spent years building, someone can destroy overnight. Build anyway. If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today, may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Give the world your best, and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway. For you see in the end it's between you and god. It was never between you and them anyway. - MotherTheresa    
• Be who you are and say what you think, because those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss
• A girl should be two things; classy and fabulous. -Coco Channel
• A successful woman is one who can build a firm foundation out of the bricks others have thrown at her. -unknown
• Once you stop learning you start dying. -Albert Einstein.
• You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have left. -Bob Marley
• There will be times you feel like you have failed, but in the eyes, heart, and mind of your child, you are super mom. -unknown

So these are some of the most important pieces of advice I can give you that I have found to help be through tough times. I have found that taking a little bit from all of them and mixing them together into one big pot works well and should get you through. It won't be easy, life never is. But no matter what's going on it will be ok. Give it some time and give yourself some time. It may be cloudy now but it won't rain forever.